In Memory of

Leah

Ann

Balsden

(Turner)

Obituary for Leah Ann Balsden (Turner)

It is with heavy hearts and deep sadness that we announce the passing of our beloved Leah Ann Balsden, age 61, on January 8, 2020. During her passing at the Sarcee Hospice in Calgary, she was enclosed in the arms of her loving family. Leah was predeceased by her mother in 1988, her father in 2001, and step father in 2012. She is survived by her husband Doug, daughter Kayla (Joel), and grandson Sydney. She is also remembered by her sisters Lynda, Georgina, and Christine as well as her brother Dan, along with numerous nieces, nephews, cousins, and special family friends in Canada and Australia.

Leah was the daughter of the late Raymond and Elizabeth Turner. She was born November 10, 1958 in Guelph, Ontario. She spent the first twenty years of her life in the Georgetown and North Bay areas, and came to Calgary in 1978 where she worked in landscaping and a variety of other jobs throughout Calgary and Southern BC. In 1984, while working at the Scotia Bank Saddledome, she met her future husband Doug. They were married in 1985 and relocated to Sherwood Park AB shortly after, where their daughter Kayla was born in 1987. While in Sherwood Park Leah worked for the County of Strathcona in the Parks and Recreation Department. After eight years in Sherwood Park, Leah and her family moved to Cochrane AB, where she spent the next eighteen years raising her daughter and working for the Rocky View School Division and the Cochrane United Church. In 2011, Leah and Doug finished working and moved to Stavely AB where they enjoyed retirement for the next seven years. In 2018, they moved back to Calgary where they resided until her passing.

From spring through fall Leah was an outdoor girl. She loved gardening and caring for all types of plants, trees, and flowers. She enjoyed camping, especially in Southwest Alberta in the Oldman dam area and in Saskatchewan at Waskesiu National Park. Leah loved barbeques with family and friends and going to (or in her younger days playing) baseball games. She also played the occasional round of golf. In winter, she joined the hibernation crowd and moved indoors to pass the time with activities like crocheting, puzzling, crafts, and card games like Euchre.

Leah was a gentle soul. She was compassionate and empathetic; she truly felt what others could only imagine. She often shared their burdens but never complained about what she took to be her obligation to them. She was loyal and protective. She had an eye for detail and saw not only the beauty in her flowers, but the beauty that she chose to perceive in others. She always put her family and friends first and had an incredibly strong devotion to the people she loved. Her family and friends knew her for her quick wit, infectious smile, and straight forward approach to life. Leah presented herself as a simple, ‘what you see is what you get’ women. She was blunt and to the point. Yet deep inside she carried a complexity which was not easily understood or acknowledged by others. She was a private person and chose to keep her own struggles to herself. She was so wise, strong, observant, and insightful and her family and friends drew on those strengths constantly. But she was also a fun-loving person, and enjoyed socializing anytime day or night. She had a mischievous side, enjoying a good prank with others, but never at their expense. She didn’t seek to be the centre of attention, but at a party one always knew she was there, laughing, dancing, and never missing a beat. Finally, Leah was a contemplative and spiritual woman. She believed in things like Zodiacs, and signs of the Universe. Mostly, she believed in us - all of us. From the beginning of her life until the very end, she embodied positivity and a tenacious will to live life to its fullest.

She will be profoundly missed by everyone whose life she touched.

Leah conveyed recently that the greatest honour in her life was being a mother and a Grandmother. She chose to spend her final Christmas (a holiday she loved) peacefully with her husband, daughter, son in law, and new grandson Sydney; “He’s my world”, she would say. Early in 2019, after Sydney was born 10 weeks early and was reliant on care in the Neonatal Intensive Care Units (NICU’s) at the Foothills Medical Centre and Rockview General Hospital, Leah said that if she ever won the lottery she would give it to the NICU to help those babies who couldn’t help themselves. She won’t win that lottery now, but if others wish to donate in Leah’s memory, then the Neonatal Intensive Care (NICU) (403) 943-0615 might be a consideration. Otherwise a donation to the charity of your choice would be appreciated.

A celebration of Leah’s life will be held at Choice Memorial (105-4715 13th Street NE, Calgary, AB) on Friday, January 17, 2020 at 11:00 am. Condolences, memories and photos may be shared and viewed here on the website.