I only ask one thing; no sad tears for me. Every wonderful, delightful, thrilling experience and emotion that life has to offer has been mine. Rather recall me with a fond smile as a son, grandson, brother, uncle, nephew, cousin and friend who shared your laughter, tears and dreams through the years.

Save your sadness and sorrow for those who leave before they taste all the goodness of the world.

I have lived a good life. I’ve laughed and cried. I’ve been cradled in the arms of my mom, walked with the hand of my dad's in my own. And had the joy of playing with my nieces and nephews.

Think of the happy times. Most of all, remember we were together as a family and as friends.

As long as you remember me with a fond recall and share a thought or two of me. I will live in you. All who have loved and been loved have earned immortality.

No sad tears for me.